Being overly attached to your partner suffocates their mind, which can render that person co-dependent or at a loss of individual identities. Your red flag might point in the opposite direction. Some have more than others, but if you disagree with that statement as a whole, narcissism etches itself into the forbidden fabric of a red flag.
But while you may have looked for your partners’ red flags, have you ever thought to ask, ‘what’s my red flag?’ Whether problems fall into the categories of too late, too soon, or too much, it’s all-too-important to recognize the issue. Romantics look for red flags like the game of love is a game of Minesweeper.